So our little man is 15m this month and I am having one of those back off and leave my kid alone moments. So if you have not noticed Parker is an active mobile child. Most of the kids his age are just learning to walk where our little guy has been doing it for 6months. So he is an active kid but mentally he is only 15m old. I don't know what I am trying to say but basically I am sick of the looks that people give me when he is being naughty, or getting into or climbing on everything. Once again I would just like to say he is an active 15m old kid and I am trying my best. It has been an overwhelming feeling because I feel bad for the things he does to others kids, their homes, or what not but also I think people need to learn some patients and stop judging. I did not have kids for a while and we were around many children between friends, family and church callings and every ones kids are naughty at some time in their lives. I have seen mothers get the "look" ( you all know it) the "why cant you control your child" look. Well I am saying IT HURTS!!!!! people get upset over kids
being kids and learning how to handle their emotions. They are not born able to express themselves especially when they cant even talk so how to you expect them to understand all that you are saying when you tell them to be soft and nice. It is a learned skill and I am trying. I am not writing this because of anyone or anything specific that has happened I would just like to say would it kill us as adults to learn some patients not just for our children's sakes but for other peoples kids to. I am not trying to make excuses I know my kid sometimes bites, hits and pulls hair believe me I know, but who kids haven't. I am trying to communicate with a baby and so far it doesn't always work so please learn some patients and help each other out. quite judging each other, each others parenting skills, or each others families. no one is perfect. AND NO CHILD IS PERFECT.
being kids and learning how to handle their emotions. They are not born able to express themselves especially when they cant even talk so how to you expect them to understand all that you are saying when you tell them to be soft and nice. It is a learned skill and I am trying. I am not writing this because of anyone or anything specific that has happened I would just like to say would it kill us as adults to learn some patients not just for our children's sakes but for other peoples kids to. I am not trying to make excuses I know my kid sometimes bites, hits and pulls hair believe me I know, but who kids haven't. I am trying to communicate with a baby and so far it doesn't always work so please learn some patients and help each other out. quite judging each other, each others parenting skills, or each others families. no one is perfect. AND NO CHILD IS PERFECT.
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3 comments:
Amen!
He is sure cute, no matter what he does!
When I was reading I thought you were describing Devin at first.
I hear ya Ashlee. Getting "those" looks from other people is SO frustrating. I feel like walking over and confronting them sometimes.
I try to ignore it and keep my focus on the kids and that helps!
by the way I think you're doing a great job! I think Parker is a cutie!!!
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